FM dinner

The Reef
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Hello everyone,

@reef-conflict will be organising the next full member dinner. When speaking to others, I hear mixed feelings and expectations for this dinner. Also, it seemed to me that there is no simple answer to the question: what are full member dinners about?
Since we haven’t had one for a while, and since we have grown as a group since, I’d like to first gather some information (some kind of survey if you will) from all of you concerning your wishes, constraints and expectations.

Purpose of Full Member dinners

  • I’m aware of some underlying tensions (in myself or in the group), and I see dinners as a supportive space where connection and understanding can grow.

  • I don’t strongly feel tensions, but I appreciate having regular moments together that help keep us aligned and connected as a group.

  • I mainly value these dinners as relaxed time to share, connect, and enjoy being together.

  • Right now I don’t feel a strong need for additional gatherings and would prefer to keep shared activities light or minimal (because of limited time for example).

  • Other: specify below

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Which elements would you like to see during the upcoming FM dinner?

  • Informal connection
  • Space for emotions
  • Conflict or tension processing
  • Practical updates
  • Playfulness / fun activities
  • Ritual or grounding practices
  • Just enjoy my food with some fine people
  • Other: specify below
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What level of structure do you prefer?

  • Fully spontaneous
  • Light structure
  • Clear facilitation
  • Strong structure with defined rounds
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Agenda coming FM dinner

  • I would like to actively help shape or propose parts of the agenda.
  • I’m open to contributing if invited, but don’t want responsibility for planning.
  • I prefer to come and participate without being involved in preparation.
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And lastly: when will you be available for the next FM dinner?

  • Friday 13/03 18h
  • Saturday 14/03 13h
  • Saturday 14/03 18h
  • Sunday 15/03 17h (after plenary)
  • Friday 20/03 18h
  • Saturday 21/03 13h
  • Saturday 21/03 18h
  • Sunday 22/03 13h
  • Sunday 22/03 18h
  • Friday 27/03 18h
  • Saturday 28/03 13h
  • Saturday 28/03 18h
  • Sunday 29/03 13h
  • Sunday 29/03 18h
  • None of these dates work for me
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Sorry for this whole sandwich (as we say in Dutch)
And thanks for taking your time to fill it in :weight_lifting_woman:
@reef-conflict will be happy with your input!

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thanks sterre, tagging @reef-full

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@Sterre is it ok if we fix the date on the 15th of March? Thx!

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Sure! @reef-full 15th of March after the plenary.
@joannes might we be able to eat at your place?

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It would be great tp have you over. All those leftovers to get us through the week!

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Hello everyone @reef-full, Sunday’s the day!

For the one’s who haven’t done so yet, can you please fill in the poll in the first post (especially for your attendance this Sunday?)

I’m not sure I can stay myself, it depends on the kids.

Concerning dinner, I was thinking of doing a meal where everyone brings a component, so the preparation is simple (you just prepare/bring one ingredient!).

@joannes, do you think you can manage to cook rice for 10-12 people?
For the others, please fill in the poll. Each component should be prepared for about 10–12 people.

If you see someone has already ticked an option, please choose another ingredient.

  • Roasted chickpeas
  • Grilled tofu
  • Roasted sweet potatoes
  • Roasted cauliflower
  • Roasted broccoli
  • Roasted zuccini
  • Caramelized onions
  • Feta
  • Avocado slices
  • Tahini sauce
  • Tatziki sauce
  • Yoghurt-garlic sauce
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About the agenda: I’d like to know if anyone would like to use this FM dinner to address something (formal or informal) that’s on their mind. If so, please let me know so we can try to find a moment to include it.

Otherwise, I have a game or two that we could play together if the time and the mood allow it. Suggestions are welcome.

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Thank you @Sterre, especially for your thoughtful approach to the organisation and preparation :slight_smile: I’ll be representing our household at the plenary on Sunday, but unfortunately won’t be able to attend the dinner afterwards…

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From our side, we are also not likely to stay for the dinner, either Richard or I. There’s the Sunday-Monday adjustment and after a long meeting we will probably want to go home.

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That’s a yes.

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