Hi @seh_notts you are the second person in our community calls and coping series who tells us they are looking somehow in this direction - of buying land, or be outside of the city. @iriedawta mentioned the same a few weeks back.
I had promised you the closest thing to a directory of community places - we built this list last year as we were researching for The Reef (co-living and co-working project in Brussels). Maybe some resources there would be interesting for you?
Among others, @felix.wolfsteller is living in an intentional community in rural Germany, if you want to ask him more.
I also wrote about this initiative outside of Berlin a few years back - they own land together but do not actually live there permanently: