Facilitation Training - Winter 2025

Dear @reeflings

Team Facilitation is organizing a few more training sessions this year!

They will be hosted by our newest team member @Lee , so you know it’s gonna be good :heart:

We will have a half day in person training teaching facilitation skills based on NVC (i.e. the listening part, including making people feel heard and resetting people’s nervous system to “rest and digest” when things get tense.)

After that we will organize a practical 2 hour online session to practice these skills.

There will also be a 2 hour online facilitation training about the ‘drama triangle’. Just in case of the unlikely event there would ever be any drama :nerd_face:

The training is primarily aimed at the members of @reef-facilitation to expand our knowledge and skills. But of course it will be a lot more fun if more people join!

So as is tradition, here is a poll to decide when to hold the in person NVC facilitation training.

I will put up polls for the other two sessions in function of the results for this one.

  • Saturday 29/11: 1pm - 5pm
  • Saturday 29/11: 5pm - 9pm
  • Saturday 6/12: 1pm - 5pm
  • Saturday 6/12: 5pm - 9pm
  • Sunday 7/12: 1pm - 5pm
  • Sunday 7/12: 5pm - 9pm
  • Saturday 13/12: 1pm - 5pm
  • Saturday 13/12: 5pm - 9pm
  • Sunday 14/12: 1pm - 5pm
  • Sunday 14/12: 5pm - 9pm
  • None of these times work and I want to join
  • I won’t attend
0 voters

Since the external NVC training is postponed for now, we are using some of those dates as an option.

Love you all!

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Hi gaulthier, I see there is a FM dinner planned the 14/12 from 11:00 till 14:30

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Would it be possible to schedule these type of trainings much more in advance? The options are all in 1 to 3 weeks, it’s nearly impossible to free 1/4 of my weekend on such short notice.

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Hi @Hannah

I see! Alright let’s try to accommodate you in this :slight_smile:

How much in advance would you like to know the dates in the future?

Hi @GaultierDWM,

I am willing to offer the training twice, so that we can offer it at least to as many people from Team Facilitation.

The dates that I find this way are 29/11 13-17h and 7/12 17-21h (20h in practice).

What do you think?

If it makes things easier, I can also take over the scheduling from here. Seems easier to work without a middle man?

Doing the training twice would be great @Lee

I do think you have the dates or times mixed up :wink:
No one else is available on 7/12 in the evening.

Unfortunately there isn’t any 2 time slots where everyone is available either. Knowing that Mieke isn’t currently planning on facilitating herself I would suggest Saturday 29/11 in the evening for Maria and Saturday 6/12 in the evening for Joannes and Hannah then?

If you can take over the scheduling that would help me tremendously! I will delete my previous message to avoid confusion!

I can also sign up for the session on 6-12. May need to take Edgar for like half an hour before Richard picks him up, but it is possible. I´ve just changed my vote.

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Hi @GaultierDWM, I also would like to join, although I am not volunteering to facilitate / join team facilitation for the time being.

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Me too!

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Hello @reeflings,

If you would be up for an NVC practice session this Saturday 29/11 from 13:30 to 17:00, please be more than welcome! If you are planning to show up, can you please fill in the poll?

The scheduling has been done to accommodate for as many people from Team Facilitation as possible, but the session is of course accessible to everybody in The Reef.

The course content sounds a bit as if the magical formula to turn stones into gold pebbles will be unveiled, while in practice it will be not much more than three simple exercises on NVC listening skills :smiling_face:. These skills are of course very useful in any Reef meeting, for facilitators but equally for everybody else, but I reckon they might also serve in other situations in daily life. So please don’t be discouraged by the topic of this thread!

I will probably organise a second, identical session, some time from now, so that @MariaAM and @Hannah can also follow it, but I need to give a bit more thought to the scheduling. So if you are also interested in this session, but you can’t make it this Saturday, please also fill in the poll so that I know who is interested.

Back to this Saturday, I propose to organise the session at my place, and I’m opening up for a potluck lunch, from 12:00 until 13:25, open to everybody, also if you are not taking part in the NVC session.

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I’d like to join the NVC meeting, but i can’t commit just yet… with the strikes these few days, i need to catch up on some errands this weekend, hopefully they can be done this Firday. Please quasi-count me in if that is OK.

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@Wenwei won’t make it tomorrow unfortunately.

Hello @GaultierDWM @Manoj @TamaraFoubert @Liesbet @els @Sterre @mieke. I’m really sorry but I am not feeling well and will need to cancel tomorrow’s session.

Let’s reschedule to next Saturday 6 December 5-8 pm. Ping @MariaAM @joannes and @Hannah.

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Alright @Lee

Wishing you a speedy recovery!

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Get better soon! :heart:

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@Lee Hope you are feeling better now…
I won’t be able to attend the session this Saturday. My apologies!
Just checked my agenda and i have an online retreat at the same time. Next time I guess!

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