This post sparked an interesting conversation
People expressed some concerns about rituals. I would like to quote Alberto here about Matera “lovely place with much wisdom we can learn from”. I think it is very much about the ethos of Lote3.
To be on the safe side while using the word “ethos” I used the dictionary definition: the characteristic spirit of a culture, era, or community as manifested in its attitudes and aspirations. So attitudes and aspirations.
I guess, the concern about “holding candles” doesn’t come from the low level of spirituality, but on the contrary, from a high level of spirituality, consideration, and attentiveness.
Lo and behold: the word “spiritual” has two meanings. 1 of, relating to, or affecting the human spirit as opposed to material or physical things : I’m responsible for his spiritual welfare | the spiritual values of life.(of a person) not concerned with material values or pursuits.2 of or relating to religion or religious belief.
And I use the term in the first sense. In this respect joining the Honourable unPompous Lote3 and unMonastery Hosts Committee will be helpful.
I have a couple of personal thoughts on rituals:
• I think every collective ritual, whether it is holding candles, cooking or taking a walk, benefits from being customized for a particular moment in time and a particular location. That’s why I prefer simple rituals developed on the spot (like walking and having a coffee) to complicated ones borrowed from someone else (well, because, how can they be spiritual for me?)
• We sometimes borrow rituals from the times long gone in a very consumer’s way. Without asking what it actually meant for people who once put it together. Assuming that the more complicated ad ancient it is, more there’re candles, more spiritual we become. I reckon, that is why, some rituals make many of us feel awkward. Taking an ancient ritual and replaying would make many feel awkward. Because it becomes empty.
• Purpose. I’m not very much a purpose guy, but, if I try to think of the purpose of rituals, I personnaly would not like it to be society of the spectacle. As, the important element of Lote3 is Matera (we don’t go there every day) the Pasta Party and the a tourch-lit guided tour of the Sassi sound to me way more spiritual than The Celebration of Flooding Nile, for instance. I’m not laughing here.
• And the last point, or perhaps, a question. Samhain sounds quite cool, but wouldn’t it be a bit awkward to celebrate harvest, if we didn’t do the harvest? I guess, if some of the unMonastery future projects will include permaculture, urban farming and that sort of stuff, the unMon version of Samhain will naturally come into existence.
By the way, Italy has plenty of harverst related celebrations and festivals in the Autumn, as far as I know. I’m looking forward to food! And one who thinks that Collective Festive Eating is not spiritual I let to be the first to throw a tuna fish at me.