Couchsurfing request template text

Hi guys, here is a template request for anyone looking for accommodation in Brussels during LOTE5 through Couchsurfing platform. I’m going to use this to find hosts for as many community members as possible(holla if you need help with accommodation) as I’m a CS ambassador thus have larger chances to receive a positive answer. Also feel free to create your own account on CS if you don’t have one and contact hosts for yourself. Please personalize this text and modify it so we do not risk having the same host contacted by different people with a similar message.

Hi [name],

How are you doing? My name is [name] and I’m a [profession/occupation] currently based in [location].

I am a part of Edgeryders global community, and we are planning our 5th annual gathering in Brussels on February 25-28 which is called Living On The Edge (LOTE). I am looking for CS hosts for me and my friends because when traveling, we don’t like to do the typical touristy things - rather we look for a truly genuine cultural experience. We believe one must live and get to know the locals of wherever they are traveling to. Locals can show a side of the target destination that no guidebook or website can. That is why we would like to stay with you, a local.

Please, let me know if you are available and how many people you can host. We are all experienced travelers and do not need someone to babysit us, but we do appreciate a good talk over a drink and we’d love to hear about your favorite spots in town, maybe you could take us there in your spare time? That would be awesome!

In return we can offer you to participate in one of our sessions and/or dinner parties and meeting our community, which consists of hackers, activists and just normal people from all walks of life that want to make a difference in this world. We promise to be respectful, contribute to your daily life as much as possible and help you with household chores, of course :slight_smile:

FYI The LOTE series are collaborative events where Edgeryders come together to learn from each other, plan the work ahead and have fun. We pick a theme that is somewhat itchy for Edgeryders all over and crack it wide open so that we to arrive at fresh thinking and projects. This year we want to learn from fuckups so to speak, and local Antiheroes are providing the inspiration. The event is open, should you care to join: https://edgeryders.eu/en/lote5/welcome-to-lote5

Looking forward to meet you in Brussels,

Greetings from [location],

[Name]

Also, if you don't have a CS profile or are new to Couchsurfing, here are some tips from @Kaja to find a CS host easier:

  1. Have a CS profile. It’s really kind of Iriedawta to help and look for hosts (that can be a lot of work …),

but honestly, as a host, I would find it awkward, if people didn’t have a profile of their own, 4 weeks prior

to the event. You can’t really speak of a rush here, and if someone wasn’t willing to get a profile, which

doesn’t take a lot of time, that would most probably set their chances to get hosted by me to around 0.

  1. Have a good profile!

Write a description of yourself, so that your host gets a good idea about who they’re letting into their flat.

It’s all trust based, so you have to pay that forward by being willing to share something about yourself.

Upload around 3-5 pictures that show you, and stuff you care about or of yourself while doing stuff you like.

  1. If you say that you don’t host, it’s a good idea to mention at some point, why you don’t. I’m a lot more

likely to host people, who don’t host themselves, if they state a good reason for that. And seriously, if you’re

not even willing to chose “wants to meet up” - are you sure, you’re on the right platform? “Wants to meet up”

is for people who can’t host, but who are willing to show travellers around.

  1. Maybe the most important part of a good CS request: Refer to something on the hosts profile! State

why you’d like to stay with THEM. This will increase your chances, because the host will notice that you

actually read their profile (go up 1 level in CS request hierarchy), and that you actually might be a good match,

because you’re interested in something about them.

If you can’t find anything - don’t ask them (in my opinion), because you will spend time with each other and there

should be something that made you chose that person to ask. If it’s only "because you live close to the LOTE

venue", you will have to get inventive :slight_smile:

I get tons of requests saying “I will be in Bern, this is what I like …”. Aha, fair enough. But if someone mentions

something that s/he thinks, we have in common or s/he is interested in sharing - chances go up exponentially :slight_smile:

Any couchsurfers to the rescue?

Hi @Iriedawta, curious if you’ve had any responses? Any help with accommodation would come so handy.

Hi @Noemi,

I was actually waiting for the participants to indicate in the wiki that they need accommodation so that I can try to match hosts with them. I don’t think it’s a good idea to just ask CSers to host someone, rather we need to tell them who exactly they are going to host in order to get a (positive) response. CSers want to know who exactly they are going to host, so we need to encourage everyone to mention in the wiki that (if they need accommodation) they are ready to have a Couchsurfing experience and it would also be good if they would create their own profile I could share with the hosts.

Please tag the people who need accommodation so that they can read this.

Ok…

Here you go: @aden @RossellaB @Patrick_Andrews @labanita. Guys let iriedawta know if you or the people coming with you need accommodation via couchsurfing?

Thanks, I won’t need accommodation as I’ll be commuting. It’s not ideal but it’s best for me to be home in the evening so I can be with my son a couple of hours. He’s only 2 and not used to being whole days without me yet. If it’s useful in any way I have a couchsurfing.org profile and can leave a reference.

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Noted.

Thanks for letting us know Rossella. If the weather’s ok and the road not too tiring, feel free to bring the little one… It wouldn’t be a first :slight_smile: We’d probably need to know in advance to make sure you have what you need.


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Would you like to bring him with you?

You can both stay in our (me + @ElienShr) living room. Not a 5-star hotel, but comfy and spacious enough I think…

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Great spirit

Kudos to @KiraVde and @ElienShr for the spirit. Actually, they almost live in a 4-star hotel: there is one across the street. smiley

Ok apparently only @Patrick_Andrews needs accommodation for the moment. I will send requests and keep you posted. @RossellaB could you write a review for Patrick as he has none? I will do the same! Here’s Patrick’s CS profile.

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@Iriedawta Can you please help me find a place as well? This is my CS profile.

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I will @Hegazy :-)

@Nadia @Alberto @ireinga @KiraVde guys can you please tell me which areas/neighborhoods are near or are well-connected to SmartBe venue so that I look for hosts there?

Saint Gilles/Anderlecht/Forest

Mostly anything close to the Midi station. Also any place that has a direct metro connection to Gare du midi stop works.

CSers in Brussels are weird! Check out this profile I came across while searching hosts for myself, @Hegazy and @Patrick_Andrews. I can’t believe this is actually real and this guy has almost 50 positive reviews lol. Guys, who’s up for staying with this host?(just kidding, he accepts females only):stuck_out_tongue:

Grand profile!

I find that BDSM/nudity guy has a great profile (in comparison with others where you have NO IDEA

what kind of a person you’re about to meet …). He states what he likes and you know what you’re getting

yourself into, when you surf his couch :slight_smile: I would have enjoyed to know in advance how much one of my CS guests was

into BDSM, before he blurted it out to my neighbours in the garden … but that’s another story :wink:

And here are

Some more suggestions on how to find a CS host easier

(add this where you find it useful, I don’t know if people who’re looking for a CS host will scroll down until they find it):

  1. Have a CS profile. It’s really kind of Iriedawta to help and look for hosts (that can be a lot of work …),

but honestly, as a host, I would find it awkward, if people didn’t have a profile of their own, 4 weeks prior

to the event. You can’t really speak of a rush here, and if someone wasn’t willing to get a profile, which

doesn’t take a lot of time, that would most probably set their chances to get hosted by me to around 0.

  1. Have a good profile!

Write a description of yourself, so that your host gets a good idea about who they’re letting into their flat.

It’s all trust based, so you have to pay that forward by being willing to share something about yourself.

Upload around 3-5 pictures that show you, and stuff you care about or of yourself while doing stuff you like.

  1. If you say that you don’t host, it’s a good idea to mention at some point, why you don’t. I’m a lot more

likely to host people, who don’t host themselves, if they state a good reason for that. And seriously, if you’re

not even willing to chose “wants to meet up” - are you sure, you’re on the right platform? “Wants to meet up”

is for people who can’t host, but who are willing to show travellers around.

  1. Maybe the most important part of a good CS request: Refer to something on the hosts profile! State

why you’d like to stay with THEM. This will increase your chances, because the host will notice that you

actually read their profile (go up 1 level in CS request hierarchy), and that you actually might be a good match,

because you’re interested in something about them.

If you can’t find anything - don’t ask them (in my opinion), because you will spend time with each other and there

should be something that made you chose that person to ask. If it’s only "because you live close to the LOTE

venue", you will have to get inventive :slight_smile:

I get tons of requests saying “I will be in Bern, this is what I like …”. Aha, fair enough. But if someone mentions

something that s/he thinks, we have in common or s/he is interested in sharing - chances go up exponentially :slight_smile:

Happy Couchsurfing, à tout le monde!

Kaja

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Transparency and outspokenness are key

I agree with @Kaja. In large, diverse spaces like Coichsurfing (or Edgeryders, for what matters) it’s perfectly OK to be off-mainstream. In fact, it’s probably an advantage, as long as you are outspoken about your off-mainstreamness. You will attract like-minded people, and everyone will be OK.

The BDSM scene tends to be really friendly and safe. In my book that does not raise any alert.

haha i know right? At least he is honest about his preferences!

@thanks @Kaja for the CS tips,added them to the wiki. Maybe @Hegazy and @Patrick_Andrews can update their profiles accordingly as I haven’t received any confirmation from CS hosts yet.

oh by the way, here’s my CS profile, normally it’s not public, i.e. you need to be logged in to see it, but I’ll leave it here for the moment, in case it is useful for others to create their profiles.

I have posted a public trip on CS website

Thanks for all the tips. I don’t know if a public trip is the best way to find a host - let’s see.

What’s a public trip @Patrick_Andrews? :slight_smile: